Maintain Sobriety With A Daily Tenth Step

Written by DeShawn McQueen on Monday, 12 November 2012. Posted in Ten Step

November 12, 2012

    1. I have this acquaintance who is capable of being quite nice and is otherwise intelligent.

    On the other hand, he is quite obnoxious, barbaric and seems to be oblivious as to how his behavior affects or perhaps even annoys other people.

    My part is that I am intolerant and impatient, so much so that I immediately want to react.

    Consequently, I do not take the time to look beneath the surface to recognize why he is doing what he is doing and, more importantly, why does it bothers me so much?! Perhaps I have issues regarding control, and certainly, as mentioned above, intolerant.

    God, divorce me from impatience, intolerance and the need to control.

    Help me to accept persons, places and things as they are.

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About the Author

DeShawn McQueen

DeShawn McQueen

DeShawn McQueen is a staff writer at Recovery Now Newspaper and, an informative newspaper that serves as a resource for persons of all stages of drug and alcohol treatment, by giving them access to relevant and necessary information so that they may live balanced and substance-free lifestyles. DeShawn graduated from Wayne State University with Bachelor of Science degrees in psychology and premedical sciences. He holds a Juris Doctors degree in law from Valparaiso University School of Law. DeShawn’s writing and research has been published in such academic journals as Behavioral Pharmacology and Pharmacology, Biochemistry and Behavior among others. He lives in Los Angeles, California.

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